The glorification of busy

“I don’t have time."

      This is an answer most of us heard, atleast once in life. Or much more many times, because time is a 21^st century issue. But I’m not talking about time for business affairs. I’m talking about the time we are investing for our own hearts.

       It’s slightly disappointing to hear this reply as an excuse. But in time I’ve learned that us humans, we are best at excuses. But then, this thing will somehow backfire, if you keep hearing it over and over again, it will backfire on your self-confidence.

"I’m sure (s)he’s too busy to hear me out."

      Plot twist. This backfires even harder.

      Why would you think that ?

      Is this affecting your perception of yourself ? Does it make you feel slightly worthless ?

"Honey, do not try to fit in."

      You're basically in control of your limits. 



Image credits: The persistence of memory - Salvador Dali.