marți, 19 aprilie 2016

The glorification of busy



“I don’t have time."
      This is an answer most of us heard, atleast once in life. Or much more many times, because time is a 21st century issue. But I’m not talking about time for business affairs. I’m talking about the time we are investing for our own hearts.
       It’s slightly disappointing to hear this reply as an excuse. But in time I’ve learned that us humans, we are best at excuses. But then, this thing will somehow backfire, if you keep hearing it over and over again, it will backfire on your self-confidence.
"I’m sure (s)he’s too busy to hear me out."
      Plot twist. This backfires even harder.
      Why would you think that ?
      Is this affecting your perception of yourself ? Does it make you feel slightly worthless ?
"Honey, do not try to fit in."
      You're basically in control of your limits. 



Image credits: The persistence of memory - Salvador Dali. 

luni, 18 aprilie 2016

Nimicuri

Buna,


   A trecut ceva vreme. Ce ai invatat de atunci ?

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   Am invatat ca oamenii sunt liberi. Liberi sa faca ce vrea sufletul lor. Si daca cineva simte nevoia sa interactioneze cu tine, o va face. Si ce e cu atatea prejudecati ?
   Daca vrei sa te manifesti. Nebuneste. Fa-o cum o faci. Fa-o fara sa te gandesti foarte mult. Daca simti ca vrei sa faci asta, fa-o. Pentru binele tau.

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   Suntem putin complicati.Avem nevoie de spatiul nostru.
   Si e perfect normal.

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   Dar te rog eu frumos. Nu incerca sa te ascunzi.
   Asta e frumos la noi, oamenii. Amalgamul de sentimente. Si e amuzant, pentru ca habar n-ai ce sa faci. Nu e ca si cum e ceva ce poti sa controlezi
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   Si te rog, in fiecare zi, aminteste-ti ca tu, tu, cumva, esti important.
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   O seara frumoasa.